Xena was rarely ridden during her 17-years. She was started as a young mare by Peter Campbell, during a natural horsemanship clinic in Alberta. Fast forward 10 years, and she’d changed hands, been a PMU mare for several years, and ended up as a rescue on a feedlot. In 2007 she was again backed by professional trainers, but her last ride turned into a bucking session and the rider was seriously injured. Understandably, no one has ridden her since.
I’m not a professional rider. I’m not even an advanced rider. But in any case, I don’t think it’s crazy to restart her myself. She knows me, trusts me, and is strongly bonded to me. And just as importantly, I know her; I know how she reacts when she’s frightened, I know how she behaves when she’s confident. I can recognize her thresholds before she’s overwhelmed, and I have the patience to go back to square-one, if that’s what she needs. And, by the time I mount her, we’ll have completed 2 years of Parelli groundwork training together — that’s significant. (I’ve almost convinced myself that I’m capable. :p)
My plan is to train Xena from the ground, on as many pre-riding skills as I can find or create. I plan to above all, take the time Xena needs; months if necessary. We will have many training sessions, leading up to our first ride, because the more I build her confidence from the ground, the safer I’ll be in the saddle … and the more confident she’ll be under it. All it’s going to take is time, patience, perseverance and love — in abundance.
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Wow…this sounds like my journey with Joe. Only you have documented it so well. I think we have done everything the same. I have gone through all the skills you have used. But I am stuck during the winter for the weather here in Montana has been fierce. Did do alot of sitting bareback and sliding off in the round arena this winter which is another good thing to do. Will start up again here real soon as soon as we can work in my outdoor arena again. Keep me posted. My greatest joy maybe this summer is to ride Joe and experience the Tennessee Walker gaits. Keep up the wonderful work with Xena…your friend in Parelli…Marlene
Thanks so much for your comment Marlene. :) Horses like Xena and Joe may force us to climb a steeper learning curve, but oh how much we learn in the process! I hope you have a wonderful summer in Montana – I envy you the mountains and big sky.
All the best, Linda