At the beginning of 2010, I made the decision to dramatically change my life. I wanted to re-prioritize how I spent my time and money, so that owning Xena would become a reality, not just a dream. I can make sweeping changes like this, because I don’t have a husband and kids to consider.
Keep it simple.
I’ve loved my house, but the garden I once enjoyed is now neglected because I’d rather be at the barn. And, while a long daily commute is the norm in Toronto, I no longer want to waste 3.75 hours going to and from work.
Own Xena.
Financially, I have to choose between the house and the horse. I can’t afford both on one salary.
Go away on vacation.
Last year I went to Austria and rode in the Alps for 10 days. That trip reminded me how much I’ve missed traveling. It’s now a priority.
I began by selling most of my furniture on kijiji.ca and donating about 50% of my belongings to a charity. Once the process of downsizing was set in motion, everything else seemed to come together quite quickly — I think there was also some luck involved!
| March 23 | I listed my house for sale. | |
| March 27 | My house sold in just 4 days! | |
| April 11 | I bought a small townhouse, closer to work. | |
| April 20 | I booked a holiday for December 2010. | |
| April 23 | I moved into the townhouse. | |
| May 1 | I became a horse owner! | |
| June 6 | I moved Xena to a natural horsemanship barn. | |
In just 76 days, I changed my lifestyle, shortened my daily commute, booked a holiday, and became the owner of a horse I dearly love. It was a hectic few months, and some parts of my life temporarily fell by the wayside; Xena’s blog was among the fallen. But I found what I was looking for; a simplier life, and more time to enjoy my horse.

Hi Linda,
This is your cousin here. Aunt Grace gave me your website. Beautiful horse. I’ll bet you get a lot of enjoyment and peacefullness from being around Xena. I’m glad that things are going well for you.
Keep in touch.
Anne
Hi Anne, Thanks so much for stopping by! :) I hope things are going well for you too. My mare has become the focus of my free time, and you’re right, I find peace and happiness whenever I’m with her.
All the best,
Linda